Many of you would be thinking who she might be, for your clarification, she is Muniba Mazari, a motivational speaker, an artist, runs modelling campaign, fights for women, children and gender equality rights which is a must. An iron lady from Pakistan. Her past is one of the worst tragedy that could happen to anyone. She was 18 when her father asked her to get married. She belonged to a conservative family where the children would not say ‘no’ to their parents. Her answer was “if that makes you happy, I am okay with it”. Of course, her it was not a happy marriage. She led her life somehow and within two years she met with an accident. Somehow her husband fell asleep while driving and the car fell in a ditch. Her husband managed to get off from the car, but she was in the car for hours till the rescue came and sustained a lot of injuries, her right arm was fractured, the wrist was fractured, shoulder bone, collarbone and her rib cage got fractured. The saddest part was, she got her spine injured and made her could not stand forever. She also proclaimed that those two and a half months in the hospital were dreadful and she tried to commit suicide a few times.

              The doctors proclaimed that due to her spinal injury, she will not be able to give birth to a child anymore. That day she was so devastated. After being discharged, she gave her name in a few organizations and she believed that by giving birth is not the only way to become a mother, there are hundreds and thousands of kids waiting to be just adopted.

              After two years, she received a call from a small town from Pakistan and they said there is baby boy, would you like to adopt. That moment she said that she felt the labour pain and without hesitating she said yes. When she was there to take the baby, the man who was holding the baby boy looked her head to toe. She told him “don’t judge me just because I am on a wheelchair’. He replied, “he is so lucky to get you as his mother and no one can be a better mother than a person like you”. The baby boy was just 2 days when she adopted him and now he is 6 years old. S

              She also proclaimed in an interview that the most painful thing ended up being in a wheelchair is because they think that they will not be accepted by the other people because they and the world of” perfect” people are imperfects. It is okay to be scared, it is okay to cry but giving up should never be an option. People says that failure should not be an option. Failure should be an option, because when you fail, you get up, you fail again, and you get up again and that keeps you going. Meeting her once would be my life time goal.

“What an inspiring lady she is, it would be gods grace to be an ardent fan of hers.”