⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆: January 2018

Ujian merupakan dugaan yang Allah S.W.T turunkan untuk menguji sejauh mana kekuatan iman hamba-hambaNya. Ujian diturunkan dalam dua jenis sama ada kesusahan ataupun kesenangan.Contoh bagi kesusahan adalah seperti sakit, ditimpa musibah dan sebagainya manakala bagi bentuk kesenangan pula seperti kekayaan, dikurniakan anak yang cerdik dan lain-lain.Sememangnya dugaan berbentuk kesenangan adalah untuk melihat sejauh mana manusia bersyukur dengan nikmat Allah S.W.T yang tidak terhingga. Nikmat kesusahan pula diberikan untuk Allah meninggikan darjat iman seseorang itu.Allah S.W.T. menurunkan dugaan kesusahan kerana merindui seseorang itu. Mungkin kerana faktor kesibukan kerja, seseorang itu telah terkurang ibadatnya. Jadi, Allah S.W.T. merinduinya untuk beribadat.

Sabar

Sabar itu separuh daripada iman. Terdapat satu kata pujangga yang sangat menarik untuk didengari berkaitan dengan sabar iaitu ’orang yang kuat adalah orang yang mampu sabar dan menahan marahnya.Sifat sabar itu sememangnya nampak mudah tetapi amat sukar untuk kita milikinya. Sebagai contoh, kita dibuli oleh seseorang. Adakah kita ingin bersabar ataupun membalas perbuatannya itu?Apabila datangnya situasi begini, amat sukarlah untuk kita menguasai sifat sabar itu. Oleh yang demikian, kuasailah sifat sabar ini dalam diri. Sentiasalah bersabar apabila diduga oleh Allah.Nescaya Allah akan memberikan lebih ganjaran kepada kita berkat kesabaran yang dimiliki itu.

Berfikiran Positif

Perkara penting yang menguasai perlakuan kita adalah pemikiran kita sendiri ataupun dipanggil mindset. Tetapkanlah di dalam minda bahawa setiap ujian yang Allah timpakan itu adalah untuk meningkatkan darjat kita di sisiNya.Yakinlah juga bahawa setiap dugaan yang didatangkan itu akan ada bersamanya suatu hikmah. Sentiasalah berfikiran positif ketika menghadapi ujian Allah.Sebagai contoh, jika kita diuji dengan kesakitan sehingga menyebabkan kita tidak dapat pergi ke tempat kerja. Hikmahnya ialah mungkin diri kita perlukan rehat setelah terlalu sibuk bekerja. Masa ini juga boleh kita gunakan untuk beribadat kepada Allah S.W.T.Terdapat juga tanggapan tentang konsep ujian di mana ada yang menyatakan bahawa ujian ini merupakan kifarah dosa ataupun balasan atas dosa-dosa yang kita lakukan sebelum ini. Hal ini betul, tetapi tidak semestinya.Jika diteliti pada sirah Nabi Muhammad S.A.W., Baginda turut diturunkan dengan pelbagai ujian malah lebih berat daripada ujian yang ditimpakan kepada kita pada hari ini. Adakah kerana Baginda berdosa? Tidak sama sekali.Rasulullah S.A.W. adalah maksum, iaitu terpelihara daripada dosa dan telah dijanjikan syurga kepadanya.

Beristighfar

Sebaik sahaja sedar kita ditimpa ujian, beristighfarlah dengan penuh keikhlasan. Sesungguhnya dengan beristighfar dapat menenangkan sedikit hati yang sedikit yang sedang lara.Cubalah yang terbaik untuk beristighfar. Andai kata terlalu sukar, mulakanlah dengan menyebut nama Allah setiap kali kita ditimpa masalah.Biasakan diri berbuat begitu sehinggalah diri kita sudah terbiasa. Yakinlah bahawa setiap masalah yang kita hadapi itu ada penyelesaiannya.Allah inginkan kita untuk berusaha demi menyelesaikan permasalahan tersebut. Setiap usaha yang kita jalankan juga telah dijanjikan pahala oleh Allah.

Kesimpulannya, Allah S.W.T. menurunkan ujian bukanlah untuk membebankan manusia tetapi untuk meningkatkan darjat mereka.Setinggi mana pun tahap ujian yang kita terima sememangnya ada hikmah yang terlindung di sebaliknya.Jangan sesekali berputus asa atas dugaan yang diterima.Sebaliknya, tanamkanlah dalam fikiran bahawa ujian yang diterima itu hanyalah sekadar kemampuan diri dan bertujuan meninggikan lagi darjat kita di sisi Allah S.W.T.

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Many of you would be thinking who she might be, for your clarification, she is Muniba Mazari, a motivational speaker, an artist, runs modelling campaign, fights for women, children and gender equality rights which is a must. An iron lady from Pakistan. Her past is one of the worst tragedy that could happen to anyone. She was 18 when her father asked her to get married. She belonged to a conservative family where the children would not say ‘no’ to their parents. Her answer was “if that makes you happy, I am okay with it”. Of course, her it was not a happy marriage. She led her life somehow and within two years she met with an accident. Somehow her husband fell asleep while driving and the car fell in a ditch. Her husband managed to get off from the car, but she was in the car for hours till the rescue came and sustained a lot of injuries, her right arm was fractured, the wrist was fractured, shoulder bone, collarbone and her rib cage got fractured. The saddest part was, she got her spine injured and made her could not stand forever. She also proclaimed that those two and a half months in the hospital were dreadful and she tried to commit suicide a few times.

The doctors proclaimed that due to her spinal injury, she will not be able to give birth to a child anymore. That day she was so devastated. After being discharged, she gave her name in a few organizations and she believed that by giving birth is not the only way to become a mother, there are hundreds and thousands of kids waiting to be just adopted.

After two years, she received a call from a small town from Pakistan and they said there is baby boy, would you like to adopt. That moment she said that she felt the labour pain and without hesitating she said yes. When she was there to take the baby, the man who was holding the baby boy looked her head to toe. She told him “don’t judge me just because I am on a wheelchair’. He replied, “he is so lucky to get you as his mother and no one can be a better mother than a person like you”. The baby boy was just 2 days when she adopted him and now he is 6 years old. S

She also proclaimed in an interview that the most painful thing ended up being in a wheelchair is because they think that they will not be accepted by the other people because they and the world of” perfect” people are imperfects. It is okay to be scared, it is okay to cry but giving up should never be an option. People says that failure should not be an option. Failure should be an option, because when you fail, you get up, you fail again, and you get up again and that keeps you going. Meeting her once would be my life time goal.

“What an inspiring lady she is, it would be gods grace to be an ardent fan of hers.”

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Nobody knows the value of a person till we are really into it, even sometimes those who are deep into getting know each other has also failed miserably in understanding human being. That is why I named mystifying puzzle. They are so known as my close friends since semester one. These ugly ducklings have been with me throughout the ups and downs.

Latiefa Irdina, 21, she is a very intellectual person who knows to analyse and differentiate things. She is also more interested in psychology and she can read people. We used to find faults of people while using English Language, but that is only for improvising in future. She also trembles for such petty issues. Dina, whatever happens you must know that I will not stand behind you but will stand beside you.

Nur Izzah,20, she is a very dedicated person, but you eat a lot. HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA! I will never forget the amount of rice she would eat all the time in Amin Restaurant. Even though she is kind of strict and over emotional person, she is still being herself. That is her extraordinary attitude, keep it up.

Batrisyia Husna, 20, a very humble person that I have ever known. She does not know how to hurt a heart and she is so professional in that. A very calm person but so careless. She would easily misplace her stuffs and the highlight part is she can be chill even after misplacing her purse. Oh god, who on earth can be like that? I would be screeching and seeking for my wallet. My first impression on her was also, she looks chilled and relaxed almost all the time, is she normal? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

Siti Nur Athirah, 20, no one would believe she is 20 this year. Cepatlah GEMOK sikit. HAHAHAHAHA. She looks so tiny but very egoistical. If she gets pissed off, she would not give a damn to no one, YES, no one. To make her chill, we must shut our mouth if no, the consequences will be even heavy. Trust me she is dare enough to do anything. She would kick me if I disturb her with things that she doesn’t like. GANGSTER SIAKKKK!

Whatever happens, they are so special in my heart. Athirah and Izzah knows my problems that I faced over here and all. Yet they are being still a mystifying puzzle because it is hard to predict them.

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Hi everyone! Is there anyone out there having a hard time? I mean, yea. In the position of you can easily cry, lowkey and down to Earth, also have a feeling of shutting down everything and make a new start? Other day, Izzah posted about relationship and yea, things that I wanna post now is perhaps quite similar. I wanna talk about respect, appreciate, and effort.

Yes betul, family sentiasa ada dengan kita tak kira apa pun jadi.

Yes betul, kawan kawan yang dari dulu ada dengan kita yang patut kita dahulukan.

Tapi,

Pernah tak korang terasa yang kadang kadang bukan semua benda kita boleh cerita dengan kawan and family but boleh share dengan someone special?

I admit. I am in that position now. Bukan soal nak kebelakangkan keluarga atau kawan kawan tapi, kit alebih tahu siapa yang sesuai untuk kita cerita segalanya. Sama jugak dengan someone special tu. Bukan dalam semua kes, kita sesuai nak cerita dengan dia kan? It works vice versa.

I can easily cry, I can easily laugh. Suddenly I am moody and I don't have mood to talk to anyone for one whole day. I easily get annoyed with people and situation as well. This is so hard and I am trying my hardest to control it. I swear I don't know what had happened to me but it is what it is.

Despite everything that I am facing now, I tell him how I feel everyday. I did not put him aside. I tell him when I feel annoyed with anyone. I cry on him when I am not fine. We go out for a date when I wanna be happy with him. Everything I do, most of the time I will do it with him. One of the biggest blessing that I have is having him in my life I swear he is the most patient person that I have ever met. No, this is not a test for him. Just to see whether he loves me or not. No, I don't have time for that. Trash. Crap.

He never stops lending me his shoulder *and some cringe things that I think it is inappropriate to share it here.

But my point here is, appreciate the person that never gives up on you, look at the effort and please do not stop thank you-ing, tell him that you are genuinely happy and loves him truly. Give and take is really important but completing each other with accepting each other's flaws and perfection are still the main key.

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